What a week it was; so many endings and good-byes, presentations, parties and anpil plezi! We knew it would be tough to leave and we have both felt the loss already (Although not always at the same time). We are now left with a low but constant tug on our hearts and a pull back to Baconnois and our life there. How will it be in eight months when we return…
The week or actually two-week good-bye started with a party on Memorial Day Sunday for our little neighborhood. We invited the three families around us, the Pitons, the Presmys, and the Jean-Jacques. There were, of course, four or five uninvited guests that just showed up or were brought by the invited guests. (This tradition is a constant and still hard for Dan and I to manage and understand.) We bought hot dogs and ice cream at a town about an hour and a half away and rushed it home with lots of ice. We hired a wonderful woman, Madam Francoise, who cooks fritay every day to cook for us. We expected Banan Peze but also got Akra and lots and lots of Pikliz! She was amazing. The evening was delightful ending with dancing on the roof!


We spent the next week organizing “Should it stay or should it go?” Isn’t that a song? We stayed somewhat organized until the final week when we got too busy to take time or really care about an organized storage room.
We took Jamesley and Wynn Kerry to the cliffs in Petit Trou to see the “spout”. The spout was a little disappointing. When we discovered it, it blew off our hats and totally surprised us. Since then, it’s been lying a bit low.

We had our final “English” class with the neighborhood kids. It was so fun. We had given a “Test” to the advanced kids the week before and now they all got certificates. Actually all the kids got certificates but the advanced kids got certificates of completion from the Dan and Teresa’s “Make It Up as We Go Along” English school. And Dan had always wanted to see Abu and Daphca jump rope and they brought their rope. Dan got into it in a big way, almost losing his shorts and definitely losing his flip flops. We ended with a video (Thank you Fran for the Lego Movie) and ice cream. It was a huge hit!


We biked and walked around our neighborhood and Dan did a final visit to the Thursday Karfou Lendi market.
That evening, Ti Pa Ti Pa came over to say good bye. It was so sweet. They all dressed in the Ti Pa Ti Pa shirts and gave us a frame to remember and thank us. We were blessed to have them as part of our lives all spring and they were so gracious to say farewell in such a meaningful way.
Finally, on Friday, we participated all day in the 3rd annual Agriculture Fair at St. Paul’s. It was our planned last event… The day started with my bike needing a third bearing change in two weeks. I got to St. Paul’s and handed it over to Kenson for immediate repair. He is so cool. He is never rattled and always says “Yes”! He always calms me down. Anyway, the reason for a need for immediate repair was because my bike was to be the raffle item for the fair that day.
Dan and I were under the impression that the fair started at 9. I arrived at 7:30 to set up my art booth and Dan brought 11 neighborhood kids for the start at 9. Being Dan, he arrived at 8:45 and it being Haiti, the actual event really got off the ground at about 1. Needless to say it was a long morning! So we just took photos with all our school buddies!


To set off the event, a DJ with monumental speakers had been hired. The music was at about 120 decibels (I looked it up and it said 120 D is painful and it was!) and lovely konpa. To talk you had to shout, it was definitely a drag on the day and caused me to have to walk out a couple of times just to spare my head.
My art booth was a display of all the artwork the kids did over the semester. It was fun to have students visit and especially the kids who had created a piece. They were so excited.

At about 1, they started a program of skits and dancing and music by the students. The theme was the environment. There was a skit about trees as friends and one about the dangers of chemical pesticides. There was a rap about danger of plastics and garbage. And there was a presentation of all the kids who worked with me building schools out of paper in the after-school art program. I was so proud!!
Dan and I were beginning to wonder if they were ever going to begin the raffle so the kids could get their tickets. We finally mentioned it to Vladimy who was announcing. So about a half an hour before the end of the event, they explained the raffle.
It was just for students and to get a ticket they had to collect 10 empty water sachets, which are all over! It was a mad rush for collection and tickets, Dan and Wynn handled it and they were fairly overwhelmed.
The announcement of the raffle winner was a beautiful moment and something I will never forget. Around 75 kids had collected the plastic sachets and thus held a ticket. They sat there with rapt attention. They all had a chance to win. It was so cool to sit among them feeling their excitement. This is not a common occurrence; having a chance to win a bike.
And Raphael’s announcing! He was masterful. He drew out the announcement (I think Wynn coached him on this a bit), talking about how all the kids were already winners because they had helped clean up the campus and take the plastic off the ground and head it to recycling. He talked about the student who would get the bike and how they would not be adding pollution with a car or a motorcycle.
Finally came the big moment. And the winner is…Schneider!!! 10th grade Schneider also known as BonBon. Schneider is a great kid and the bike will be a huge help as he lives in Baconnois not far from us. His ride will be 3 & ½ miles to school. And the 10th grade class is so close. They are like family. Within 30 minutes of Schneider receiving the bike, I saw 4 different 10th graders riding it.
Schneider with his bike along with Vladimy, Maxo and Raphael.
The fair was ended with a soccer match between St. Paul’s and Baconnois but after our early morning arrival and the ear-splitting music, we had had enough and headed home. It was a great but exhausting day for us and all the neighborhood kids.
The actual saying good bye was so hard, especially with Jamesley. We talked about the “Leaving” a couple of times to help him understand. It was still so painful. The night before, we discussed it and he put his head down on the table and just couldn’t talk. Dan and I cried a bit and Saturday morning, we hugged and kissed Jamesley and Wynn Kerry and finally took off.
Wilderson, Jamesley and Olvenson
The final good bye to Haiti was not without Haitian troubles. Driving away we quickly realized that in sleepy little Petit Reviere (Ti Riv) there were major problem. Wynn and his crew had left about three hours ahead of us and found Ti Riv blocked. It was a local issue, there was a group upset with a local magistrate but they were very well organized. They dug a ditch in the road and closed off the back roads. Fortunately, Raphael is from Ti Riv and so we called him. He had us meet his brother, Alfred, at their mom’s house. Alfred then recruited a friend and they hopped in our overcrowded car. We didn’t even try the blockade but headed straight down the back road. They had to get out a couple of times and use their local influence to talk their way through. There were wood blockades they had to move aside, there was a barbed wire blockade they had to lift for us to drive under. And there were groups of angry Haitians, they had to sweet talk into letting us through. It was a tense 30 minutes but after that we flew.
We actually left Petit Trou on Saturday because we heard Sunday was going to be a day of major protests and we wanted to be in Port au Prince.
We were right, all the roads were blocked on Sunday and most of the stores were closed around us (Even the Stop-N-Go!). The area right around us was quiet and no one was on the road. We walked around the not-too-scenic streets close to Lakay Poze but we were safe, if a bit sad and there was air-conditioning.
Post Script- July 3, 2019
We’ve been home for three weeks now and as I reread this blog, I am homesick so much for Baconnois, St. Paul’s and especially our kids. I miss them every day and so wish I could spend a little time, just an hour with them. We are already conniving to get back there. I am hoping/working on a plan to get there in September for a short visit and we’re talking about next spring.
A sad post script is that since that Sunday, June 9, the situation in Haiti has been awful. I think it has bypassed February and last November for length of time for the unrest. I am afraid that nothing is settled or will be settled any time soon. I don’t know what is needed to finally bring peace to Haiti but it isn’t happening any time soon.
A happy post script is the Haitian national soccer team. They made it to the semi-finals in the Gold Cup and played their asses off! Way to go, Haiti. I heard that the rioting actually stopped for a while during the matches.
So signing off for a while. Colorado life is wonderful but maybe not blog worthy for a bunch of Coloradans, no?
Much love and if you made it this far, let me know and I’ll buy you a beer or a glass of wine!